Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Monday, June 7, 2010

Expanding Your Comfort Zone into POWER

Today's article is to help expand your comfort zone to increase your wealth. If you challenge your mind to expand your comfort zone, naturally, you will expand your wealth zone. By striving to grow your comfort zone, you are constantly taking risks and finding more opportunities, ideas, actions and growth than you ever imagined.

Here are 10 Actions you can take RIGHT NOW that will question your current comfort zone, and will take you to a place of more WEALTH and more POWER.

ACTION #1: THINK LIKE A CHAMPION

Donald Trump says you should ask yourself: If I had nothing to do at all, what would I do? Write out your gut reaction now and discover what might be missing in your life.

ACTION #2: EXPAND YOUR WEALTH ZONE

T. Harv Eker says you should expand your wealth by expanding your mind. Keep track of your thoughts for an entire day, and replace any negative thoughts with empowering ones.


ACTION #3: RECAPTURE YOUR CHILDLIKE WONDER

Mark Victor Hansen says our creativity causes our talents to surface. List your top three talents. Select one that brings you the most joy and makes time disappear. Can you turn it into a business?

ACTION #4: START YOUR BUSINESS NOW

Step off of the recession roller-coaster and control your income source. Find out if you have what it takes to be an entrepreneur by taking my quiz.(Private Message me to Receive Your FREE Quiz!)

ACTION #5: TO-DO LIST

Mel Robbins says getting more accomplished isn't about managing time; its about managing YOU. What's one thing you could accomplish today that would make you feel fantastic at day's end? Do it now--and start every day with that question.

ACTION #6: GO INTROSPECTIVE FOR A MINUTE

Are you a good leader? John C. Maxwell says good leadership is not about how far you advance yourself, but how far you advance others. List the ways you are adding or subtracting value to your team.

ACTION #7: STRIP BARE

Richard Branson believes in perseverance, imagination and risk. Write down a risk you know in your gut you should take for your business. Now do it.

ACTION #8: SCORE BIG

Chris Paul of the New Orleans Hornets says, You can't separate yourself from the pack unless you rise above average. Stop sitting on the average sidelines and step into the game. What two decisions can you make right now to live at a higher level?

ACTION #9: LIFE IS THE BEST TEACHER

Bethany Hamilton, at the age of 13, lost her arm after being bitten by a shark while surfing. Instead of giving up, she learned to embrace adversity and continues competitive surfing today. What three things have you learned from your biggest adversity? Now put them into practice.

ACTION #10: WELCOME CONFLICT

Only GREAT teams argue... Conflict avoidance leads to mediocrity. Send your team members an email encouraging openness at your next meeting. Tell them to refrain from mean-spiritedness or personal attacks, but to speak their mind. Learn what concepts and ideas your team members are passionate for. Compromise and artificial consensus only leads to mediocrity.

What suggestions or other ideas do you find important in expanding your comfort zone that other readers should know? Please share them, so we can all benefit, by commenting below. Thanks, The Sherlocks

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Our Lives Are a Compilation of the Little Things Decisions We Make

Over my career I have read and heard thousands of quotes from great leaders, but there is one I replay in my mind more than any other. Jim Rohn, one of the greatest personal development teachers of our time said,

“Success comes from making a series of good decisions over time, while failure comes from making a series of bad decisions over time.” 

I believe this is one of the most accurate statements of human achievement ever articulated during the 20th Century.

Decisions to Ponder
Every day we each make hundreds of little decisions, most of which seem inconsequential at the time. But every decision—no matter how little—will lead us closer to or further from our goals. Today’s lesson will focus on what I define as “either/or” decisions, because you’re deciding to “either” do something “or” not do something.
  • Do we get out of bed early enough to properly prepare for the day?
  • Do we straighten up our bedroom and make the bed before heading out the door?
  • Do we dress and groom ourselves so that we make a positive impression on people?
  • Do we make food choices that will improve our health?
  • Do we control interruptions so we can focus on our responsibilities?
  • Do we set aside specific time to spend with our children?
  • Do we show our spouses that we love them?
  • When talking on the phone, do we sound happy to be speaking to the other person?
  • Do we exercise even when we don’t feel like it?
  • Do we think about what we want to say before speaking?
  • Do we show courtesy by holding the door open for someone else?
  • Do we compliment people when they are deserving of one?
  • Are we friendly in our emails?
  • Do we say please and thank you?
  • Do we show people respect by letting them finish talking before responding?
  • Do we apologize without making excuses when we are wrong?
  • Do we have a positive attitude even when things don’t go our way?
The Power of Our Decisions
These and hundreds of other little decisions we make each day may seem insignificant when looked at individually, but when looked at collectively they influence every part of our lives. From our relationships to our health, no part of our lives is exempt from the effects of these little decisions.

We are where we are and whom we are at this very moment in life based on the decisions we have made. Our physical health is largely the reflection of our decisions. Our finances are what they are because of our decisions. Where we work and what we earn is the outcome of our decisions. The state of our relationships is the result of our decisions. Everything we have or don’t have is a reflection of our decisions.

We can avoid accepting personal responsibility for our decisions by blaming others, but if we consider how something occurred, it all points to a decision we made.  From time to time there will be exceptions, but if we are honest with ourselves, our lives are a mirror image of our decisions.

There is also a positive side effect from intentionally making good decisions.  When you make wise choices regardless of how little they may be, you will feel happy with yourself and who you are becoming because you will know you are doing the right thing.

Improving Our Decision-Making
If deep down inside you want to become a better person and enjoy greater success and fulfillment in your life, then consider these suggestions.
  • Accept responsibility for your decisions and stop blaming others for where you find yourself today. This is the first step forward.
  • Become aware of decisions you are making every day and start making decisions consistent with the person you want to become.
  • Believe in yourself and in your ability to make good decisions. Follow your gut and do what you feel is right; 95% of the time you will make the right decision.  Like any skill, as you become intentional about making positive decisions, you will get better and better.
What methods do you use to make these little daily decisions? Which ones present the most challenges? I encourage you to share your thoughts in the comment section below.



The little decisions you make each day will form the person you become tomorrow.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Thinking Outside the Box


According to Dictionary.com, creativity is described as "the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships or the like, to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, interpretations, etc.; originality, progressiveness, or imagination.” Said in simple terms, it’s thinking outside the box.

In this entry I am going to share with you one-of-the best techniques for being creative. By implementing this strategy throughout my career and personal life, I was forced to be innovative when it would have been easier to choose a more standard approach.

What do you do?

Before I share this strategy with you, I’d like you to consider your own. When you go into problem solving mode, how many different options do you generally consider? When you search for a better way to do something, do you make a list of your choices?

If you’re like most people I’ve met, you probably consider fewer than 5 options and these are the ones that immediately come to your mind. Are there others? Where are they? Deep in the recesses of your brain? It’s time to bring them out!

Make a list of 20 options

According to Todd Smith of the Little Things Matter, the next time you need to solve a problem or explore a better way to do something, compile a written list of 20 options. Not 5, 10 or 15. I said 20!

"The first five things you think of will be the tip of the iceberg. They’ll probably be the same five things everyone else would think of in a similar situation. They are the most obvious answers. The key here is to stretch yourself to think of 20. You will struggle getting up to 13 or 14, but your biggest breakthroughs will come when you push yourself to 18, 19 and 20. Often times it is in those final three where you will find the hidden jewels."

Here are some circumstances where you can apply this lesson:

  • Where your family should go on vacation next year
  • Evaluating where you want to move
  • Considering restaurant options for a special occasion
  • Your career options
  • Ways to cut expenses
  • Making investment decisions
  • How to stand out from the crowd in your profession
  • Strategies to drive sales
  • How to provide a higher level of service to your customers
  • Choosing different incentive programs for your sales team
  • Improving your ability to reach your target market
  • Finding a baby sitter on New Year’s Eve
The biggest challenge you will have is sticking with the process. It takes more effort than you think to make a list of 20 options. I have experienced several occasions where I had to really push myself to think of 20. Many times I had to take a break and come back to it. But the intense focus always opened my mind and forced me to ponder things that I normally wouldn’t have considered.

Here is my recommendation to you: The next time you have to solve a problem or think of a better way to accomplish something, sit down with a pad of paper and a pen and make a list of 20 options. Don’t stop at 17... Push yourself to 20.

Todd Smith then recommends, as your next step, to make a list of pros and cons for each option. From there, narrow your list down to your top options and study them. If you remove emotion from your decision and focus on the facts, it’s likely you’ll make the best decision. And at the very least you’ll feel confident that you’ve explored all of the available options.

For example, my husband and I were recently making plans to travel abroad to attend a close family member's funeral. The weekend prior to our scheduled flight all airports in the United Kingdom were shut down due to volcanic ash from the erupting volcano in Iceland. When they eventually opened, many people were vying for all available seats to and out of the UK. My husband and I were forced to take emotion out of the equation, and focus on the facts... should we continue out plan to have us both go and possibly not make the funeral on time, or do we send just one person with the guarantee to make the funeral on time. We chose the second option, and thus were able to have my husband take a flight to Paris and then a train to London. Had we not take emotion from the decision making process, we would not have obtained our goal to attend the funeral.

So, is there anything going on in your life right now where you can apply this lesson? If the answer is yes, grab a pad of paper and get started.

To be creative you must go where you have not been before. You must expand your mind to new ideas, opportunities and a fresh way of thinking. Only then will discover a new world of possibilities.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Discipline and Loyalty: Are They Dead?


We live in a world where these two great words (discipline and loyalty) are becoming meaningless.

Does this mean that they are worthless?

On the contrary, they are becoming priceless qualities because they are so hard to develop in the first place. And should you be one of the fortunate few who have caught the vision, your battle has just begun because the greatest battle is to keep what you’ve learned from these two priceless qualities.

Discipline is that great quality few people use that enables them to be constructively busy all the time. Even in discouragement and defeat, discipline will rescue you and usher you to a new place to keep constructively busy while you forget about doubt, worry and self-pity.

If more people in this day-and-age would realize the absolute necessity of discipline, and the degree of growth and happiness to be attained from it, what a better world this would be.

Most people think that loyalty is to a "thing" or to a "person", when actually, it is really to one’s own self. Some think that it is to a goal or an objective, but, again, it is to one’s own convictions. If loyalty has to be earned, then it is deserved, more than devoted emotion based on a temporary feeling. Loyalty is the character of a person who has taken upon them-self the task before them, and they will always realize that out of a loyal heart will spring all the other virtues that make life one of depth and growth.

As my mentor Jim Rohn once said,

"The best motivation is self-motivation. The guy says, ‘I wish someone would come by and turn me on.' What if they don't show up? You've got to have a better plan for your life."

If you aren't disciplined and loyal to yourself, your goals, your convictions, you will never have the motivation to accomplish the goals most valuable to you.

Will you commit, today, to write down your game plan, and commit yourself to achieving the desired outcome?

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Realize the Value of Time: Time in Perspective.


Imagine there is a bank which credits your account each and every morning with $86,400. This account carries over no balance from day-to-day, allows you to keep no cash balance, and every evening cancels whatever part of the amount you failed to use during the day.

What would you do?

Draw out every cent, of course!!

Well, everyone has such a bank account: its name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as a lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for you, and each night it burns the records of the day.

If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back and there is no drawing against tomorrow. You must live in the present on today’s deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!

The clock is running, so make most of TODAY.


To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.

To realize the value of ONE MILISECOND, ask the person who won a SILVER MEDAL in the Olympics.

Treasure every moment you have. Treasure it more because you shared it with someone special… special enough to spend your time.

And remember: Time waits for no one.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

How to Set Goals & Act on Them


The major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes of you will always be the far-greater value than what you get.

When Andrew Carnegie died, they discovered a sheet of paper upon which he had written one of the major goals of his life:

Spend the first half of his life accumulating money and to spend the last half of his life giving it all away. And he did!

Some people are disturbed by those tough days because all they have is the days. They haven’t designed or described or defined the future.

Goals. There’s no telling what you can do when you get inspired by them. There’s no telling what you can do when you believe in them. And there’s no telling what will happen when you act upon them.

We all need lots of powerful long-range goals to help us past the short-term obstacles.

The ultimate reason for setting goals is:

To entice you to become the person it takes to achieve them.


Don’t set your goals too low. If you don’t need much, you won’t become much.

If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you. Whatever good things we build end up building us.

As the late Mr. Jim Rohn once said, "We all have two choices: We can make a living or we can design a life."



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Sunday, December 27, 2009

Elbert Hubbard Quote

"There is no failure except in no longer trying. There is no defeat except from within, no insurmountable barrier except our own inherent weakness of purpose."

Elbert Hubbard
1856-1915, Writer and Publisher


The Network business is designed to let you have more time, more freedom, and the advantages of being in your own business, while letting you help others, and without the risk of starting a new career. Let me show you how it worked for me. www.Sherlock.GoYoli.com or 801-953-1888

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Resolution & Miracles

"If you resolve, beginning today, to put out more on your job than you're getting paid to do, miracles will begin happening in your life."

Og Mandino
1923-1996, Author of The Greatest Salesman in the World

Monday, December 21, 2009

The Best Gift to Give Yourself and Others by Jim Rohn

"I’m often asked the question, “How can I best help my children, spouse, family member, staff member, friend, etc., improve/change?” In fact, that might be the most frequently asked question I receive, “How can I help change someone else?”

My answer often comes as a surprise and here it is. The key to helping others is to help yourself first. In other words, the best contribution I can make to someone else is my own personal development. If I become 10 times wiser, 10 times stronger, think of what that will do for my adventure as a father... as a grandfather... as a business colleague.

The best gift I can give to you, really, is my ongoing personal development. Getting better, getting stronger, becoming wiser. I think parents should pick this valuable philosophy up. If the parents are okay, the kids have an excellent chance of being okay. Work on your personal development as parents—that’s the best gift you can give to your children.

If you have ever ridden in an airplane, then you might have noticed the oxygen compartment located above every seat. There are explicit instructions that say, “In case of an emergency, first secure your own oxygen mask and then if you have children with you secure their masks.” Take care of yourself first... then assist your children. If we use that same philosophy throughout our whole parental life, it would be so valuable.

If I learn to create happiness for myself, my children now have an excellent chance to be happy. If I create a unique lifestyle for myself and my spouse, that will be a great example to serve my children.

Self-development enables you to serve, to be more valuable to those around you; for your child... your business... your colleague... your community... your church.

That’s why I teach development skills. If you keep refining all the parts of your character (yourself, your health, etc.) so that you become an attractive person to the marketplace, you’ll attract opportunity. Opportunity will then begin to seek you out. Your reputation will begin to precede you and people will want to do business with you. All of that possibility is created by working on the philosophy that success is something you attract by continually working on your own personal development."